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Personal Mastery – Becoming Intelligent about Yourself

5th October 2017

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It’s easy to go through life comparing yourself to other people, wishing you could be like John or Ann, or criticising yourself for the way you do things, or the way you look. However, it’s not helpful.

It tends to put you in a negative loop with a focus on others rather than on yourself.

One of my fundamental beliefs is that you cannot lead and develop others until you first learn to lead and develop your self.

To do this you need to get to know yourself and understand who you are so you can play to your strengths and embrace your limitations. The more you do this the more authentic you will be and it will ooze out of you!

This is easier said than done. We are all human and none of us are perfect, so being able to recognise strengths and limitations can take time and a degree of humility. It requires a commitment to personal growth and mastering who you are.

It is worth it in the long run. You’ll feel stronger and others will recognise your inner confidence.

What does Personal Mastery mean?

Personal mastery requires you to establish an intimate understanding of who you are.

It is about learning how you operate when things are going well and how you operate when they are not going so well. It is about being clear about what is important to you, and it’s about knowing what will really fulfil you in your life.

It’s all about you!

It’s the degree to which you own your reactions and make yourself accountable for every emotion, feeling and thought you have.

A good test to how well you have developed is to consider how you handle adversity. Do you become emotional or do you pause, reflect and take everything in your stride – responding to what is best for the common good.

Deepening your self-awareness – the foundation to personal mastery

Embarking and facing into who you are can be scary. Occasionally you may not like what you see in the mirror. That’s often because you start by looking at what ‘is wrong’ or what you don’t like. If you find yourself doing this STOP!

Start by looking at all the things you like and all the things you are good at. Then, and only then, look at what is less ‘loved’ and consider how you may use that as an asset or manage it more appropriately.

The path to being the best you can be guides you to being more aware of your beliefs, attitudes and behaviour. It enables you to accept yourself and be responsible for your action, attitude, thoughts and the impact you have.

This will make you a better leader who inspires others to grow and your improvement will influence others and eventually change the world!

Learning to lead your self is an evolutionary journey. Every time you raise your self-awareness you will shift the way you handle situations.

Wherever you are on your leadership journey there is always something to learn as you face new situations.

Become a masterful observer of your self!

“Our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.” 

Barbara Geraci

 

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